Choices and simply Being...

Today has been a day to ponder and look at myself. Yesterday a dear friend, of both Gabriele and I, passed over. I had the privilege of sitting with her for a few days as the time came closer. We were able to chat about possibilities and what we both knew about cancer and recovery, and I was gifted with the privilege of watching this amazing lady choose to start again.
Today I looked at many of the choices and decisions I have made in my life. At how many of them were made to keep others happy while in the process creating very little joy and happiness in my world. I looked at how some disapproved of my choices (and still do) as well as those that chose to be sad because of my doing what I knew I had to do. Again it is none of my business what others think of me, however, I do enjoy friends saying  “good an ya mate!!”
How much of what we choose is because of, or for others…? I invite you to change that..!! I invite you to actually choose for you, so that you can Be you.  What does that look and feel like, you ask..? I don’t know…but I’m working towards finding out for myself.  If there is one thing you could change (not do differently, but actually change) in your life, what would it Be?
….. then choose it and Be more xx