Are we really "wrong"? or are we just different...?

So....Have you had the habit of making yourself wrong for how others perceive you, and can't receive you, and you have folded stapled and mutilated yourself to fit into what you thought they wanted of you...only to find they didn't and now want more change or don't like you because you have changed? What would happen in your life if you put yourself first..? Impossible? Not really...you are just required to choose  you, or the others.!! And no it seems we can't have both. The good news is we seem to collect a whole lot of “others” that actually like who we are...who we really are...and will even help recreate you, as you choose more...However... You are the only that can really Choose for YOU... so what is it you desire in your universe...?? and will you be the person you are today...tomorrow???